Aug
30
Dating Rules For Advanced Players
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Posted by Simon Heong
Practice caution.
That’s the message I’d like to spread out as I want to make something perfectly clear today…
As you’re out gaming women, busting them, messing around and playing with them, sometimes things can get pretty out of hand fast and the girl you’re eyeing for will definitely respond back by flirting back with you… hard.
Attention from women is great, but too much of a good thing can sometimes be ‘not so good’ too.
It can happen so fast, you might not even be able to ‘turn it off’ when you actually want to at times.
And yes, this CAN potentially be a problem sometimes.
And that’s why you have to be perfectly on guard and ready when success comes finally comes to you.
Allow me to explain…
As you may or may not already know, attraction in a woman happens instantly or does not happen at all.
It’s powerful stuff you’re learning here no doubt, it’s fun when you’re getting the results but at times you have to be RESPONSIBLE for your actions as you’re out using them as well.
I’m talking about turning on your ‘game’ so hard that sometimes you might ‘accidently’ get way ‘too much’ attention from your friend’s girlfriend or a girl your buddy has already been eye-ing for.
It’s not like you consciously did it on purpose, it’s just something that happens without you doing anything on your part.
Those of you ’seasoned’ players, you’ll know what I mean 
In fact it has happened to me several times, and that’s why I’m writing this post to share with you today.
So let’s cut right to the chase:
Rule No.1 — Never EVER mess with your friend’s girlfriend.
And by this I mean ZERO excuses, sure you may say that you were drunk, or she
was drunk, or it was just that spur of the moment kinda thing, or she just couldn’t resist having a go at you for that one time, etc…
Whatever the reason, DON’T do it.
The reason?
Because you owe your friend that much.
Girls are everywhere, but good friends are a dime in a dozen.
As hot as you may think she is, as irresistable as it may seem to just go ‘all the way’ with her, trust me and just walk away.
It’s the right thing to do, without a shadow of a doubt, it really is.
Rule No.2 - NEVER mess with a girl your friend has already laid eyes on.
She might choose you over him, yeah you’ll feel great and all, but again, DON’T do it.
Trust me, been there, done that, it’s not worth risking your friendship over for.
Again, this stuff you’re learning here IS powerful, but like Spidey said, “With great powers come even GREATER responsibility”
Think about that for a second.
And no it’s not fantasy, stuff like these really does happen in real life, so be a responsible person and practice caution always, ok?
I’ll talk to you again soon.
Aug
28
My my.
Who would’ve thought I could spark such a FRENZY in our recent newsletter posting…
Geez, at last count I believe I easily had STACKS of emails from you guys who were writing in to share their thoughts on why it should be the other way around…
I see we have a rather passionate bunch of guys over here, huh?
It couldn’t be better.
Well, just in case you’ve missed it, it was a rather long issue in which I talked about how guys should NEVER compliment a woman… freely.
Yeah.
NEVER.
If you’d like to join in the fun and know more about what I’m talking about, you can just subscribe to our how to meet women newsletter at:
I’ll be sending a new issue in the next couple of days to demistify all the
doubts that’s flying around since…
Keep your eyes open for it, ya?
It’ll DEFINITELY be a great one!
Aug
24
Foundations To Dating Success
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Man. Can you believe it’s ALREADY Friday??!!
Geez how time flies.
So tell me, how’s YOUR dating life been the past week?
Went on any dates? Met any new women? If not then **sigh**. What’s stopping you?
I mean seriously, honestly ask yourself. What is the one thing that’s essentially stopping you from getting good with the women you want?
Is it because deep down you think you’re not worthy?
(Don’t laugh. I get TONS of emails from really nice, good, genuine guys who just can’t get passed their own inner mental blocks)
Now I’m here to tell you it’s perfectly normal for you to feel so. You’re not alone… that’s for sure 
So don’t go beating yourself thinking you’re some freak of nature, alright?
Inner confidence, self-assurance and having a strong, focussed and constant positive outlook in life are things that not everybody is born with.
More often than not, it’s actually a SKILL you have to learn. Whether you like it or not, in this day and age, it’s something you SERIOUSLY have to get ‘handled’ if you want to stay competitive, be it in your studies, your workplace or even at any social setting.
Look at it as a way to broaden and develop yourself entirely as a human being. Trust me, when you have a total ‘mind-change’, when you have such a positive outlook in life, that vibe you’ll have will easily spread across everyone you come into contact with; men, women, children, etc…
You’ll look at life differently, every new day will come with it an endless stream of possibilities and hence “excitement”.
Take some time to reflect what I’ve just shared with you today.
Oh by the way, I’ve come out with some pretty amazing new dating techniques and concepts within this weeks issues of our massively popular how to meet women newsletter
Go check it out:
Aug
23
Do you know what’s the one SINGLE problem that is preventing most guys from ever getting good with women?
Come on… think??!!
OK.
I’ll give you the answer.
Most guys, even until this very day and age, whenever they see a woman they’d like to meet, they’ll have this immediate perception of “Oooh is she hot, what could I say to get her attention and like me”
“Oh my god, the other guys are making their move, shit think… quick!”
Read that out aloud and let me if it’s not true.
Come to think of it don’t you think it sounds kinda ’sissi-fied?’
See. That’s the problem.
Just because she’s hot, you’ll immediately have this perception in her mind that you’ve got to do something to “win” her over.
It’s as if she’s the ultimate prize.
And true enough, SHE’LL think the same way too mainly cos every other guy seems to be going on with the same “Oh I’ve got to something to win her over” mentality.
And the moment you have the same thinking, everything single thing you do, in your words, in your actions, in your body language; EVERYTHING will give away the same wussified vibe that you need to “win” her over.
That’s what we normally term as giving HER the power.
If you want to be truly ‘good’ with women, to at least have that inch of a success with women, you NEVER, and I repeat… NEVER give away your power to women… at ANY point of time.
If you’d like to know more about how it’s done, I go into the fine details of it within our how to meet women free newsletter.
Alternatively, if you want to screw that and go straight into all the ‘good stuff’, you can get it right now by downloading our Approaching Women How To Course here:
I’ll talk to you again soon.
Aug
18
Learning From Your Past Mistakes
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I want to point out something today which will be beneficial to your overall game.
It’s something that I truly believe in and I’d like to share it with you here right now…
I don’t think I’ve have ever mentioned this before within any of our blog postings or even our newsletters still I feel it’s something that should be brought to your immediate attention.
And here’s thing…
It’s nothing major, really and all I want is for you to just sit back and reflect on the things that has happened in your dating & social life for the past 8 months…
Life breezes pass so fast nowadays, everything moves at lightning speed, everyone’s so caught up with everything that’s going around them all at once to the point that taking time off to even ‘reflect’ on things is not something guys even bother to think about and do.
So since it’s the weekend, when things are a bit more ’slow-moving’, take a couple of minutes right now… go ahead, and yeah… just reflect.
Think about what it’s been like, the good times, the bad times and ask yourself…what have you LEARNED from those experiences…
Think about all the mistakes you’ve made, pinpoint them exactly, perhaps it was the time when you accidently blurted out a dumb comment as you were trying to approach and strike up a conversation with a woman…
Perhaps it was the time where you were plain nervous, you were intimidated by her beauty and said something lame and she completely blew you off…
I don’t know.
It could be just anything.
Think about those mistakes, and now think of exactly what you’ve LEARNED from them.
Imagine yourself, if you were somehow miraculously given an opportunity to go back to that very same point in time again, how would you do it DIFFERENTLY then?
What would you have said better?
What would you have done better?
Think about it carefully…
It’s a fun way to learn… this.
Give it a try…
And I’ll talk to you later again on why it’s so…
Until then take care buddy…
Adios!