Jun
27
Do you have such experience using cold approach ?
It is pretty fun and I think you should start practising cold approach at least 3 times a day. It’ll DEFINITELY give you a confidence boost 
As my dad always said, you don’t try, you won’t know.
Jun
26
Dating Older Women
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I am reading an article called Meeting Older Women written by my buddy – Joseph Matthew. Whether you agree or not, sometimes, older women will give you less headache compared to younger one.
From my personal experience, older women are less clingy or attach to guys. During my early stage of dating, I dated a young college girls. Wow … it was a scary ! She expects me to see her every day and I can’t go club with my friends at night. Sort of … I need to punch card and “clock in” on a daily basis. Good thing about her is, young + hot.
My own rule of thumb is … not to go for girls older than me by 3 years old.
Just my personal preference.
Ok now, let’s see what Joseph got to say about meeting older women …
If you’re a guy looking to have a good time with women, and you’ve been focusing on the “younger generation” of females out there, you might be surprised to find that you’re actually missing out on a LOT of great potential relationships.
In these modern times, older women are becoming more and more an option for guys looking to enter the dating scene. Whether the girl is a couple years older than you, or a full blown “cougar” looking for a hot stud, you have some great, un-tapped options.
See, there are lots of very “career-focused” women out there nowadays who have achieved some level of success with their businesses and are now looking to find love. There are also women who have gotten divorces and now find themselves open to meeting new men. Whatever the case, the number of available older women is growing.
And for the typical man who’s open to dealing with more “experienced” women, this couldn’t be better news.
So here’s the real question…
Are you interested in dating a woman who’s older than you are?
Do you find older women more attractive than their younger counterparts?
Well, my friend, you are not alone!
Older women are much more “mature” and experienced in the ways of love. They’ve usually had a lot of practice dealing with men, and know their way around the bedroom.
They can also be MUCH easier to deal with than younger women, who can tend to be a little “high maintenance.”
If you’re a man in your mid-to-late 20s who’s mostly been with women in their late teens and early 20s, dating a woman in her 40s can be a real treat for you!
They tend to be more mature and less selfish – sexually, and in just about every other way – than the women you’re used to dating. And if you’re not looking for anything serious, the chances are higher that they’re not either, if they’re just past child-bearing age.
In that way, they’re kind of like a lot of women in their mid-20s and younger, who don’t feel compelled to start a family in the way that single women who’ve hit 28 or 29 do. By the time a single woman reaches that age range, she’s more likely to feel that now’s the time to act if she’s ever going to have children.
That’s because she’s not getting any younger, and she feels less attractive than she was when she was in her early 20s. In her mind, it’s only going to get harder to find a great man she can settle down with.
(By the way, a lot of women at this stage make a mistake that a lot of men make their entire lives: they get desperate. Some women actually repel men because of their desire to get into a serious relationship sooner than the man is comfortable with. And a lot of women at this stage will settle for a man who they’re not compatible with, but who will end up fulfilling their need to have a family.)
So how can you start meeting older women?
The first place I’d start looking to meet older women is on the internet.
Yes, it’s true. I didn’t stutter. I’d say that 90% of the older women you’d like to meet are online.
Understand that many single, older women either have kids or work (or both).
This means that they don’t really have time to go to “traditional” places to meet men, like bars or clubs.
So hitting up websites like Match.com, eHarmony, and even MySpace can be a great way to meet these older women, since they tend to use these sites often.
Other good ways of meeting older women are to go to places you’d know to find them! So avoid that trendy bar or club, because you’d usually find these women at more laid back places.
Coffee shops in the morning and afternoon are good places to meet older women, simply because there are the places women stop on their way to and from work.
You can also meet older women just going throughout your day – be it at lunch, at the mall, shopping for groceries, or whatever it may be.
But there are problems with dating older women. You may not be as mature as she is, which can be a problem for both of you. And the age difference can become rather awkward should you decide to get married: If there’s a 15-year age difference between you, then she’ll be 50 when you’re 35!
But that’s not to say that you shouldn’t meet and date an older woman. It can be a great experience for you, if you’re aware of the potential issues that can arise in the relationship.
Honestly, the art of meeting and dating older women could fill a book, and unfortunately, I just don’t have the time to go as much into detail with this as I would like.
So if you’re interested in learning more about how to meet and date older women (or just women in general), then I would highly recommend you sign up for my free How To Meet Women crash course.
No where else on the internet will you find such a detailed and comprehensive resource – for free, no less – on how to meet and date the women of your dreams.
I will show you all the secrets you need to know on how to overcome your anxiety of approaching women, and how to not get rejected – EVER – so you can actually have FUN meeting and dating women instead of feeling like its a chore.
Just click this link to sign up for it now:
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It just takes a few seconds to sign up, and you’ll get instant access to it once you do.But hurry, I don’t know how much longer I’ll be making this resource available for free.
Wishing you success,
Joseph Matthews
Author of The Art Of Approaching Women
Jun
25
Approaching Women the Right Way
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Referring to the article posted here … on Sexy or Disgusting.
Do you approach woman in a friendly way ?
Do you approach woman in a polite manner ? or you like to interrupt them when they are busy doing something ?
Personally I try to approach a girl in a bookshop using advice opener. Probably I do it like a rush job and the girl got shocked when I start talking. Maybe next time, I should start with “Excuse Me” before I ask her for advice.
Please comment if you have similiar experience like this …
Jun
21
How to Pick Up Women
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If your goal is to be picking up women, then don’t let all the movie and TV shows fool you. You don’t have to be a “clown†or a “sleaseball†to effectively pick up a beautiful woman. In fact, picking up women can actually be an easy and extremely fun task to undertake. You just need to make a few simple preparations to prepare for success.
You can never really know when a pickup is going to go well, but there are ways you can prepare. So here’s some steps for success BEFORE you go out picking up women!
When you go to a place where you know there will be attractive women, make the decision that you’re actually going to pick them up!
Too often, guys will go out with no real goal in mind. And guess what? When you have no outcome in mind – you’ll usually end up with NOTHING.
But if you go out with a specific goal, your chances of achieving that goal go up DRAMATICALLY.
It doesn’t matter if it’s as simple as “Talk To One Woman Tonight,†or as ambitious as “Get Two Women To Come Home For A Threesome.â€
As long as you have a goal, your chances of picking up a girl will increase substantially.
You don’t even have to be GOING OUT to pick up women. Maybe you’re visiting a food court in mid-afternoon because you’re feeling hungry, and you know you’ll spot at least one attractive woman there who you could see later.
You may or may not succeed in your quest, but you’re much more likely to have a positive outcome if you go with the mindset that you can pull off a successful pickup.
Always take a pen and paper, or at least your cell phone, wherever you go. You’ll need it for when you exchange numbers with women. Be sure to keep a condom with you, too, just in case! Knowing that you have protection on hand is just one more thing that will keep you from chickening out.
Remember: Do Not Give Yourself An Excuse NOT To Pick Up Women!
Picking up women is a mental exercise. It’s about overcoming your fear, apprehension, and insecurities. In short: going up to a woman with the intent of picking her up is HARD.
So the more factors you have working against you, the easier it will be to justify NOT talking to the girl you want to.
This is a bad, bad, bad idea. Because it’s always easier NOT to do something than it is to actually just DO IT!
That is why you must mentally prepare yourself for going through with the pick up. Visualize the outcome you want. Psych yourself up. Push yourself to go through with it.
Know your environment. When you meet a girl you like, you’ll want to get together with her soon – preferably the same day, while her attraction for you is still high. Be aware of good places nearby where you can “bounce†to, like bars, coffee houses, lounges, art galleries, or other fun place where you and your “target†can have a change of scenery.
You’ll want to go to a place that’s low-key enough so you can get to know each other better. When you bounce from one location to another, it’s like you’re going on another date. Why wait for another week to pass by to take her on another date so you can build comfort with her, when you know you can do it on the same day?
Have a place in mind where you can become intimate with her. If you live nearby and you can bring her home, so much the better.
Have an excuse to take her home that has nothing to do with sex. You can have a DVD that she’s never seen but has to see, or an exotic drink she’s never tried, or some photos you’ve taken of a place where you’ve been that she’s never seen. Or you can play her a song that you’ve written. It doesn’t matter, as long as it makes her comfortable enough to come over!
Look – there is so much I have to share with you on the topic of picking up women, I could go on FOREVER.
If you’re the type of guy who’s ever struggled with picking up women, then you know how there will never be a lack of interest on this subject.
That is why I am offering my elite “How To Meet Women†Crash Course to you absolutely free. All you have to do is visit my website to get free instant access to it right now.
In just seconds, you’ll get my first tip on how to pick up women, and they’ll keep on coming – a new one every day – until you finally get the girl you’ve always dreamed of.
So just visit my How To Meet Women website and sign up for my special crash course today! The longer you wait, the longer it will take you to find the girl of your dreams.
Wishing you success,
Joseph Matthews
Author of The Art Of Approaching Women
Jun
19
Woman .. Home Sweet Home
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A friend one mine send me this … and I feel damn funny.
Share with you guys…
Woman has Man in it;
Mrs. has Mr . in it;
Female has Male in it;
She has He in it;
Madam has Adam in it;
No wonder men always want to be inside women!
ANSWER IS
Men were born between the legs of a woman, yet men spend all their
Life and time trying to go back between the legs of a woman…… Why?
BECAUSE HOME SWEET HOME.