Oct
14
How To Turn A Friend Into A Girlfriend
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Out of the THOUSANDS of questions that has been sent to me since year 2004, the most commonly asked questions are and will ALWAYS be:
“How do I turn a friend into a girlfriend?”
“How do I turn my “crush” to be my girlfriend?”
“How do I nail that ONE girl who only treats me as a friend?”
“How do I get out of the friend zone and get her to see me as a LOVER?”
I heard you LOUD AND CLEAR, and I’ve created a nice, short and simple video for you on how it’s done… you can watch it below.
Feel free to pass this video along to those you think are in “need” of it lol 
Enjoy!
Sep
12
The 3 Biggest Mistakes Men Make When Getting A Girlfriend
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One of the things that guys are asking more about - and it’s something that I’m all too happy to talk about - is the subject of relationships.
(Gasp from the crowd…)
Yes, despite all that you see on TV and hear from women out there, men really do want relationships.
And with ONE woman.
We want the power to have many women, and that’s what I teach you about here. But in the end, every man just wants ONE quality woman in his life.
There are a few mistakes guys make along the way, though, that keep them from getting a relationship they can fully commit to. (Yes, I know I used the “c” word there.)
I just want to talk about one of the biggest mistakes in this newsletter, and maybe I’ll cover the rest in future posting.
So what is this big mistake men make?
And - more importantly - how can you avoid making this mistake?
The mistake is simply one word:
SETTLING.
That’s right. As in “settle down.”
You see, “settling” is not a good way to view this. Guys look at it this way, because we’re trying to radically reduce the amount of drama in our lives. Guys just want things smooth and calm.
Settling - as it pertains to women and lifestyle - is defined as:
“Adopting a more steady or secure style of life.”
That sounds very nice, but the reality is that “steadiness and security” is what we seek when we’re trying to make things low-intensity.
Relationships, in order to last, must have some intensity to them. Excitement…
You ever seen a couple that has lost that “intensity”? They end up a bit… well, they end up boring. You’d swear they were brother and sister.
They start dressing and acting alike.
And often they start to LOOK alike.
They seem like activity partners rather than the jumpy horn-dogs they ought to be. They stay up to watch Letterman’s monologue, and then it’s off to bed…
Routine.
Well, this is the kind of relationship a lot of guys get into mostly because they want to stop “playing the field” and they want to “settle down.”
But what “settle down” really means is this:
Lock in some woman that you can comfortably keep around. A woman who will simply “settle” with you.
Let’s be realistic here. You don’t want a woman that’s going to drive you nuts with the level of intensity and drama that just gets your ulcers burning like a hot coal in the pit of your stomach.
On the other hand, you don’t want a woman who won’t challenge you and inspire you to grow and become a better person. Because THAT, my fellow Alpha Brothers, is what relationships are all about.
Not about dooming yourself into a 50 year relationship…
Not about “locking one in…”
But about being all you can be through the challenge of a close, intimate relationship.
You see, you’ll learn more about yourself in the context of a long-term relationship than you ever will in a series of “pickups” or one night stands.
So how do you avoid this trap of getting into a relationship - and then staying there - only because it’s less painful than being single?
Let me lay out the steps for you. These are the tried and true strategies I’ve used for years now, and they’re VERY effective.
Step One: Date as many women as you can…
That’s right. The best thing you can do as research for a long-term relationship - as you develop your dating skills - is to date a LOT of women.
You’ve probably heard me say this a million times, but it can’t be repeated too much. You simply MUST date other women. You don’t want to jump into a relationship just because you have nothing better going on.
You go into a relationship because that’s the next logical step on the path that you’re on.
You never want to feel like women are scarce, and that you must grab one up and marry her just because you think you might end up old and alone.
Step Two: Figure out what you’re looking for in a relationship along the way.
The one thing most people never do is look at their past mistakes and re-examine their true motives for getting into a relationship in the first place.
A relationship is something that should be a CHOICE, not something you fall into because you don’t want to be alone, or you’re afraid of hurting the woman.
This is a really common pattern I used to get into with women. It would start with a phone call to ask her out to do something, and the next thing you know, we’re in bed.
Wow, I said to myself. Now what? Oh, okay, I guess we’re boyfriend and girlfriend now.
It was just easier than admitting to myself that this wasn’t what I was looking for. I was also feeling guilty that I had slept with this woman, and now she’s going to want a relationship.
(You’ll find that this is BAD programming that a lot of guys have, here):
Getting into a lot of short term relationships helps you figure out what you want a LONG term relationship to do for you.
Step Three: Figure out what you’re looking for in a woman along the way - NOT in advance.
You won’t know this up front, and that’s why I made this step 3. You have to date a whole bunch of women to figure out what it is that you actually want from her when you find her.
I’ll tell you this - one of the biggest mistakes I see guys make (and it’s one I’ve made SO many times over the years) is that they want to date only one specific physical type, and no other.
In other words, they’re all hung up on the “librarian” type, or the “stripper” type, or the “rocker” type.
Sometimes it’s an appearance thing, too, like dating only blondes, or women with short hair.
I can tell you from experience that the woman you click with will probably NOT be the type you expect. In fact, the one thing that holds guys back from much faster success in finding the right kind of woman is often sticking too close to their “type.”
I always liked the short, gymnast type. You know, small tight body. Short hair.
I’m currently dating a tall, leggy Asian girl.
Go figure.
I also thought I’d enjoy a woman that was a firecracker - full of energy and sarcastic challenge.
Nope.
That turned out to annoy the hell out of me after a while. These women very often weren’t in touch with their femininity and that made it nearly impossible to have a healthy dynamic with her.
The point is that if you don’t date ALL types, you’ll fall into some predictable - and sometimes hazardous - patterns of behavior, because you’ll only be tuning your relationship skills to one kind of woman. And that kind of woman might not really be compatible with YOU.
So use this “dating around” time to really get a sense of what kind of woman you are capable of hanging with.
Avoid the dreaded mistake of “settling” for a woman. Instead, find a woman that you would dream of having, and then do the necessary research and field work (can you call this work?).
As I like to say, you should only be in a relationship with a woman who brings out the best in you.
There is no more important decision you will make in your life than which woman you will make your partner.
If you like this posting, wait til you see what’s here:
Until the next time…
Aug
16
Women Persuasion Secrets Officially Launched Today…
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Ting! Ting! Ting!
Today’s the day.
YoU.gEt.yOuR.gIFt.
Yeah babeeee…
But the clock’s ticking so here’s what’s up:
Of late, I’ve noticed that more and more guys are writing in grumbling on and on about how they’re tearing their hair out thinking of THINGS TO SAY to a woman to connect on a deeper, SEXUAL level as opposed to your everyday, snoozy boring ‘talk’ whenever their with them…
I can see where their coming from.
It happens all the time…
Question:
- Have you ever found yourself not knowing how to REACT and what to say when a woman rejects you or is giving you a hard time and you wanted to REGAIN back the power in your
conversation?
- Probably you’ve gotten so nervous with a girl you liked, you ended up saying something dumb and had her squinting, rolling her eyes and giving you that “UuUugH#@! You did NOT just said
that!†look…
… Or have you ever been with a woman who was soo beautiful to the point where you felt weak/powerless with the fact that SHE was controlling the flow of the interaction, acting bratty, throwing little missy fits left, right and center and
all you could do is to just zip it, shut it and suck it because you didn’t know HOW to get back that ‘upper hand’ and gain back “control”?
In short, if you’re having problems with CONVERSING and PERSUADING women to do what you WANT them to do, you’re absolutely going to LOVE what I’m about to show you…
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Consider it my way of saying ‘thank you’ for all the support you’ve shown til now =)
It wasn’t easy putting this entire package together; I literally went through HELL just to lock the dude down; 12 EXHAUSTING months of hardcore BEGGING was what it took to get him to come out of the “woods” and give EVERYTHING
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… but it was well worth the effort…
I want to give you VALUE and “this” right here IS value.
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The way he draws women in when he talks to them, you can only see it to actually BELIEVE it.
Of course, we the guys, don’t call him “master shifu” for nothing 
Download and run through his materials and you’ll instantly know how bastardly ’sly’ he really is!
(Don’t tell him I told you that ok? lol.)
Here’s your personal download link again. You can be reading, listening and watching everything in the next 5 minutes:
P.S. - Don’t forget to send me YOUR success stories k? I’m gleefully rubbing my hands, getting all fired up this time…
Why?
Cuz this is by far, the BIGGEST, most cutting-edge “giveaway” I’ve ever created and I’m hyper-pumped to hear from AS MANY OF YOU AS POSSIBLE on your RESULTS when you’ve actually USED this stuff!
Talk to me.
Jun
11
I Almost Died!
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OMG, I thought I’ve seen it all after all these years online, but the craziness that went on the past couple of days was just IN-FU@KIN-sANE!
All 86 other company websites which we shared our web hosting on were practically ‘flipped over’ because of the amount of bandwidth we were ’sucking’ out from them ever since we
released our MAMMOTH Friend To Girlfriend Secrets Video program days ago:
How To Turn A Friend Into A Lover
Now I’m no techie, and I honestly didn’t understand a single word the Operations Manager was blabbing about, but when he rushed and shoved me over to the computer screen and showed me our weblogs, that was when I went…
“Oooooops… sorry hehe”
He didn’t look happy.
Apparently at one point, HUNDREDS of you were downloading the videos recordings (ALL AT THE SAME TIME!) and it caused their entire network (including all the other websites on it) to suddenly ‘freeze up’ and auto-restart!
This is what it looked like:
(Just in case you’ve missed it, here’s the page that caused all the madness again):
How To Turn A Friend Into Your Girlfriend
If you went to our website and found a “Fatal Error: Could not retrieve configuration from database” or a “page cannot be found” command, that was the site, hanging and ‘flipping up’
right there.
Our site by it’s own was down for 40 - 50 minutes or so and I really would like to apologize if you had trouble accessing it then.
Thank God the back up servers kicked in when we needed them most *phew*
For a moment there, I honestly thought the manager was gonna KILL me, looking at that RAGE in his eyes.
He was obviously BOILING.
Hmmm.. but now when I think back again, he looks a bit more like a pissed off Panda if you ask me lol.
Lucky my girl was there beside me, looking at his Grizzly size, he could’ve EASILY kicked my ass all the way to Tokyo. lol.
Anyway, jokes aside… about the “Friend To Girlfriend Secrets” Program…
A big part of it was created in a way that will help you “get it”, to understand the psychology and dynamics of becoming the kind of person that a woman will be attracted to… SEXUALLY.
And you BECOMING that person, ‘rebranding’ yourself again to her, and changing her perception of you ENTIRELY.
Inside, you’ll learn how to spark attraction, build “chemistry” and “sexual tension” with women in every type of situation… IMMEDIATELY.
As far as I know, this is the FIRST and ONLY program of its kind EVER created.
In fact, I’m ALREADY getting emails from guys who say that just one time through this program INSTANTLY changed their views on women and attraction (even though it’s only been 3 days since I’ve officially launched it)… and allowed them to shift the ‘just friends’ energy right into a more seductive, EDGIER one.
I believe you’ll learn A LOT of things from that program that you can use IMMEDIATELY to get the results you’re looking for.
Just download and watch these videos, and you’ll know what I mean:
How To Turn A Friend Into Your Girlfriend
Let me mention it again, just so you know how SERIOUS I am about making this a “ZERO RISK” proposition for you:
When you download this program, you can go through the entire 2 months… watch all the video trainings… read all the complimentary bonus modules… listen to all private CD recordings… and get all the bonuses.
And if you’re not happy for ANY reason at all, then those lessons are ON ME. Just ask for a refund, it’s that simple.
I’m not dumb enough to make such a bold guarantee if I wasn’t CONFIDENT that you’ll absolutely be THRILLED by what’s inside and will be more than happy to KEEP it.
All you need to do is to give it a try:
How To Turn A Friend To Be Your Girlfriend
Do enjoy your materials ok?
I know A LOT of the others did
And more importantly, don’t forget to send me YOUR success story too, ya?
Take care…
Simon Heong
Jun
7
Friend To Girlfriend Secrets… Now LIVE!
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It’s FINALLY here.
Out of the THOUSANDS of questions that has been sent to me since year 2004, the most commonly asked questions are and will ALWAYS be:
“How do I turn a friend into a girlfriend?”
“How do I turn my “crush” to be my girlfriend?”
“How do I nail that ONE girl who only treats me as a friend?”
“How do I get out of the friend zone and get her to see me as a LOVER?”
I heard you LOUD AND CLEAR, so watch these videos to get ALL your answers RIGHT NOW:
How To Turn A Friend Into A Girlfriend
I know the teasing wait for many of you the past 2 weeks have somewhat been a mental torture (yes, I’ve seen the STACKS of emails).
But I just HAD to make sure EVERYTHING was PERFECT before launching it to the world.
So…
Like a BEAMING father watching his newborn for the very first time, I’ve NEVER been prouder than anything else…
For the past 10 months, I’ve been silently SLAVING AWAY, day and night (without much sleep at all!) working my ASS OFF to create one of the most COMPREHENSIVE program EVER on this.
And it’s true, this program is the FIRST and ONLY of it’s kind.
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Once it’s gone, it’s GONE.
Remember, over 101,043 people who from my newsletter will be competing for the 250 slots, I’m not psychic but I believe these bonus upgrades will be gone VERY quickly, so go here
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How To Turn A Friend Into A Girlfriend
Enjoy your videos!
I’ll see you on the other side.
Your Friend,
Simon Heong