Mar
20
The REAL Rocky Story – By Anthony Robbins
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When I first heard it, I was like “wow”.
What a story… Check it out:
Pass it around if you like…
Mar
20
Adventures Of A Pick Up Artist
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I’d like to share a short post from Brad (Adventures Of A PUA)…
One of the best things I learned from PU was to stop thinking about what other people are doing, and concentrate on yourself. Stop thinking about how much everyone else is getting laid, and concentrate the success that you’re having. If you constantly compare yourself to others, you will constantly find ways in which you come up short.
One of the problems a lot of my students complain about is that they are not getting laid as much as their friends. This is ridiculous for a couple of reasons. Firstly, you have no real idea how much your friends are getting laid, and it’s highly probable that they will be talking up their sexual exploits rather than talking them down. Secondly, everyone around you has to deal with their own challenges and problems to succeed, and these may differ a great deal from your situation.
A rich and successful investment banker may feel jealous of a barman who appears to live a care free life with the luxury of time on his hands. Where as a barman may feel jealous of the banker who is rich and successful and has a structured life. The fact is, whatever you do, there will always be someone who is out performing you in some area, be it money, job satisfaction, or having more fun.
There is no point constantly comparing yourself to others as this is will never result in contentment. If you go out with a ‘10’ someone else will eventually come along with a more attractive girl on their arm, and all of a sudden your girl is less good looking by comparison. This shouldn’t bother you, and instead try to concentrate on the fact that you have a gorgeous girl on your arm without making it a competition.
Be content with yourself and what you’re doing, and don’t worry about how many women Russel Brand is bringing home every night, and don’t let ‘Nuts’ magazine convince you that everyone out there is having threesomes with impossibly good looking women. Concentrate on yourself and what you’re achieving. The best way of doing this is to record your progress, so that you can look back at where you were months or years ago, and feel content in how far you’ve come and what you’ve achieved.
Think about it…
Feb
25
The Death Of Pick Up?
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Well said… From Neil Strauss, Best-Selling Author “The Game: Penetrating The Secret Society Of Pick Up Artists”
In the last week, two more prime-time scripted television shows ripped off The Game and Mystery’s techniques.
And of course perverted the message of the whole thing.
For those who haven’t been keeping score, last year, CSI Miami aired an episode about pickup artists with rival workshops, an undercover reporter infiltrating them, and murderous results.
Then there was Twins (the Sara Gilbert show), in which Gilbert’s nerdy high school friend returns transformed after having written a book about picking up women using techniques like negs.
And on a recent Ugly Betty episode, she interviews the writer of a book called Tap That: How to Score With Hot Bitches, which advocates the A.S.S. approach to meeting women (Approach, Subdue, Score).
TV writers seem especially fond of using use pua jargon like neg and peacocking, which one of us should probably get the Oxford English dictionary to include.
Anyway, I thought TV writers had their fill of The Game after these shows.
But then, the other week, on Big Bang Theory, one of the nerds, Howard, decides to try peacocking and negs, and strikes out miserably.
And then last week, on Criminal Minds, investigators chase after a man who’s taken a pickup workshop with a Mystery clone named Raven, and is now seducing and murdering innocent clubgoing women.
Do you sense a theme here?
It’s that the game is for creeps, losers, and killers.
And this kinda pisses me off.
Why?
Because it shames men out of seeking help for their issues. Help that could bring them out out of their social shells. Help that could make them much happier with themselves. Help that will, for most of them, lead at some point to marriage and children – and, in the meantime, lead to new experiences and friendships, not to mention some fun, consensual late nights.
The truth is, from the thousands upon thousands of successful AND botched pickups I’ve witnessed: The game poses a far greater threat to the guy than to the girl. And not one TV show has captured this.
The real victims of the game are the guys who get so into it, they lose themselves. They lose the things that are special about them as individuals, they lose their direction in life, they lose their ability to relate normally to people.
And that is a minority of guys. Most are smart enough to get it, and blossom into amazingly cool, fun, successful guys.
When it comes to violence in society, which these shows love to attribute to PUAs as an exciting plot twist, if you read the news, some of the most shocking crimes in society have been caused by men who have pent-up sexual desires but have either been rejected or just have no way to attain them. So they grow dark and bitter and hateful, and eventually lash out.
Other instances of violence (like school shootings and suicides) have been caused by people who felt like social outcasts. And other instances (like domestic abuse) stem from an attempt to take control over the victim.
(Of course, some people are just crazy, fucked-up sociopaths.)
The point is: when taught and learned correctly, the game socializes men.
And the more socialized people we have in this world, the less anti-social behavior we’ll see.
If fewer people feel powerless around and invalidated by others, than fewer people will resort to trying to get what they believe to be the upper hand through violence
So, rather than leading to more violence in the world, the game is at least a step toward leading guys to seek help with their issues and pointing to other attainable solutions.
Because the game is not about wearing a funny hat and insulting women.
It’s about becoming your best self and making the best possible first impression you can. It’s about understanding the rules that people use to make social and sexual and professional choices and alliances, and working effectively within that system.
It’s about attracting others by learning to master yourself, rather than trying to control them. And it’s also about having fun when you go out, rather than cowering timidly in the corner.
Though the seduction community has its faults and shortcomings, I often think about what my life would have been like if I never discovered it. And I would have died having missed out on so much of life, because I was so scared and timid and uncomfortable and mute around women and strangers.
And what worries me about these shows is that, psychologically, they make guys who feel socially ostracized feel even MORE ostracized and ashamed for trying to do something to change it.
So, in conclusion, we’re all going to have to band together and change the tide on this in television dramas and sitcoms. (Thanks to VH1, at least this is getting a better depiction on the reality show front.) Maybe we can make a show about a crime-solving team of pickup artists, who use their social skills to make connections and get information from people.
Or maybe not.
But at least we can all do our part in encouraging anyone – male or female – to take whatever positive steps are necessary towards becoming a better, more attractive, more successful person who’s
fully and fearlessly engaged in life.
Feb
22
How To Make Money Online
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You know… just looking at the current economic gloom and doom that’s all around the papers and the media these days, it can get a little depressing. With massive layoffs, uncertainty, slowing demand everywhere, etc, there’s no denying that times are tough…
And that’s why I’ve decided to side-track from dating for a while and share with you something which I believe will help *ease* your “burdens” if you’re looking for additional ways to generate an additional stream of income.
One of the easiest and best ways to start making a nice stream of side income is through the internet.
Now, if you have been marketing on the Internet for any length of time, chances are you have heard of Derek Gehl. Derek is one of the most successful REAL-LIFE Internet marketing experts online today.
I have learned more about the hard-hitting Internet marketing strategies that really work directly from Derek and his team than any other so-called Internet marketing expert. So when I saw this idea from Derek, it only took me a few minutes before I was once again amazed by the POWERFUL STRATEGIES he had uncovered.
I am talking about a monthly publication that gives you the NO BS EXAMPLES of real people making real money and the exact STEP-BY-STEP DETAILS of how they’re doing it!
Derek. introduces you to people just like you and me — real people who are making real money on the Internet — and shows you the exact strategies they have used to generate incomes in excess of $100,000 to $600,000 online every year… most of them working from home!
I was in his private site just yesterday, and even though I’ve personally been marketing on the `Net for quite some time, I learned some killer new tricks from people like…
- Robert who turned his $275 a week paycheck into a site of online investigative resources that takes him only 2 hours each day to run… while earning him OVER $250,000 A YEAR in profits!
- Ellen, a work-at-home mom who generates a great income by simply selling her homemade soaps from her site!
- Ken who made $300,000+ IN HIS SECOND YEAR OF BUSINESS by teaching people how to daytrade on the Internet… all from his beachfront condo in Hawaii.
- Andy, who makes $600,000 a year educating others about the hairloss industry and showing people how he managed to reverse his own hairloss!
… and these are just a few of the people that have already been EXTENSIVELY INTERVIEWED for Derek’s private web site. With his monthly subscription you will be exposed to 2 additional interviews every single month.
IMPORTANT NOTE: These are not the typical amateur interviews… You will hear these people answer some extremely tough questions about the exact strategies, software, and tools they used to start, build, and grow their businesses to their current success. You’ll even hear about the mistakes they made, and how they suggest YOU avoid them!
So if you want to skip the failing promotions and get a personal tour of REAL WEB SITES built by REAL PEOPLE making REAL PROFITS on the Internet, then go to…
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Who knows, maybe with this little step of yours, you’ll be able to get one of these babies one day… “Mama always says, you never know what’s gonna come next” 
P.S. As an extra bonus, you’ll also have the opportunity to enter a special draw for a site review done by Derek and his team (valued at $5,000).
Each month, a member’s site is drawn and then reviewed by Derek and his team, who dissect the site and give tips and tricks they can use to really accelerate their growth and sales.
PLUS! Even if your site isn’t chosen, you get the benefit of seeing all of the profitable suggestions that Derek and the IMC team make — many of which will likely apply to your site, too!
Check it out by clicking on the link below:
Until next time…
Simon Heong
Feb
19
How To Handle Rejection From A Woman
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As we go about our daily lives meeting people (women esp), we are bound to meet “resistance” in one way or another…
Like I always mentioned here in our newsletters, whenever you get rejected by a woman because of what you did (or did not do), NEVER take it personally.
Understand that sometimes, you’re just not her type. In our Friend to Girlfriend Secrets Program, I talked a WHOLE LOT about this concept of specific archtypes. So when it comes to handling rejection from a woman, just take it in your stride and move on.
MOVE ON damnit!
Guys always have this problem os sitting down, crying and whining when a girl rejects them… Well, don’t!
Consider rejections as small little “obstacles” in your path
towards getting your ultimate dream girl.
Take your pick of the following notes, choose the best and DRILL the mother fu^ker into your brain as you’re out living life.
(It applies to overcoming obstacles in ANY area of your life):
Robert H. Schuller
Press on. Obstacles are seldom the same size tomorrow as they are today.
Orison Swett Marden
Most of our obstacles would melt away if, instead of cowering before them, we should make up our minds to walk boldly through them.
Marsha Sinetar
Life’s up and downs provide windows of opportunity to determine your values and goals. Think of using all obstacles as stepping stones to build the life you want.
Frank A. Clark
If you find a path with no obstacles, it probably doesn’t lead anywhere.
Eric Hoffer
It still holds true that man is most uniquely human when he turns obstacles into opportunities.
B. C. Forbes
History has demonstrated that the most notable winners usually encountered heartbreaking obstacles before they triumphed. They won because they refused to become discouraged by their defeats.
Robert H. Schuller
For every mountain there is a miracle.
Norman Vincent Peale
Stand up to your obstacles and do something about them. You will find that they haven’t half the strength you think they have.
Orison Swett Marden
Obstacles will look large or small to you according to whether you are large or small.
Maxwell Maltz
We are built to conquer environment, solve problems, achieve goals, and we find no real satisfaction or happiness in life without obstacles to conquer and goals to achieve.
Until next time…
Simon Heong